Archive for August, 2011

 

My frustrations while working on my plans

I acknowledge the fact that I put a lot of emphasis on work. Some may call me a workaholic. I take great pride in my work, whether it is my job or my personal projects. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail at what I try. I try to always learn from my experiences and work on [...]

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Everyone has their issues…

and everyone will do their own work to learn and grow.
Remember that and understand that you, and only you, can do the work you need to do for your own Happiness.
Nobody knows your issues better than you.
Nobody understands your vision of Happiness better than you.
A Coach, a Friend, a self-help book, TheNewHappyMe, will help you [...]

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I had to pass this message on to you

A TNHMe Friend sent me an email this morning, with a story that she said made her think of me. It was so sweet. Thank you!
The story is one of those that goes viral on email but the message on this one is so clear. I just had to share this one with you. It follows [...]

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The ghost of the past – my excuse to stall.

Regret, blame, fear of past emotions coming back to haunt me. I lock myself up to prevent from getting hurt ever again. Ghosts of the past. I protect myself with statements to remind me of the danger. They become my excuse to stall…

I fell flat on my face, I will never do that again.
I was [...]

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I had my chance for a happy life, I messed up.

This is another one of those statements that I will bluntly say “SO WHAT!” to!
So you messed up, you made a mistake. What makes you think THAT was your chance at a happy life? You can never know for sure, since it never materialized completely. Would it make you feel better to think that THAT [...]

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I was searching for a happier life… How could I have missed it?

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” – Hellen Keller.
Words of wisdom.
Ya so, you missed an opportunity. Are you going to dwell on it all your life and miss out on [...]

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In my quest for Happiness, my Friends disagree…

From the get go, this topic was part of my planned series on issues that may cause you to stall on your Path to Happiness. Friends, as discussed a few weeks ago, play a huge role on our Journey. Some will support and help us through our endeavors, some will try to dissuade us or [...]

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In search for a happier life, I got hurt…

If this is true for you, you are not alone my friend. I am here with you.
I’ve been hurt and burnt several times over and now, I am a different person.
Indeed the experiences changed me over time. I don’t know if they changed me for the better or not, but I can tell you I learned [...]

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I make plans for a happier life, but…

Do you know exactly what it is that you need for your happier life? Have you figured it out, or at least do you have a vision of yourself in the type of life you want to lead? Can you almost touch it and feel with all your senses what it could be like to live that [...]

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I want to live a happier life, but…

BUT what???
What can possily make you think that you couldn’t have what you want for yourself for a happier life?
What can make you think you don’t deserve it?
What can make you think it is out of reach?
What is happier life for you anyway?
If your definition of happier life is a reasonable package that meets your [...]

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